One’s public acceptance as a local is measured in many ways; personally it arrives when you attend a funeral of someone who
is unquestionably a local.
The late Chris McPherson - a 'good bloke' who always 'had your back'. |
That
sense of being a local arrived sometime late in the 1980s when I was standing
talking with friends after the funeral of a fellow I had got to know quite well
since arriving in Shepparton earlier in the decade.
Suddenly
I felt as if I was a local, far short of the 25 years many deem as the
qualifying period to acquire such an attribution.
Well,
sadly the death last week of another friend again reinforced my awareness of
being a local.
This
time however, it is different as not only was Chris McPherson my friend, he had
given me work, he was my boss, or more correctly an integral part of the McPherson
Family for whom I worked for many decades.
Chris
was, in colloquial terms, “a good bloke”, someone who always “had your back”
and although he may have been uncomfortable about things you said or did, he
always stood beside you, helping fend off the critics.
Having
been the Editor of this newspaper for more than 15 years, familiarity with
Chris’s unflinching loyalty, his tireless enthusiasm and ceaseless endeavour
for the success of the McPherson Media Group was evident every day.
Chris
and I were fundamentally different people with seemingly incompatible values
and although that may have created a publically never seen fissure in our
relationship, it actually generated a strange productive energy between us that
produced a vital balance.
Success
in business for Chris, hinged on a certain relentless drive for profit and
growth, which saw him painted as a rather ruthless businessman, a portrayal
that did him a disservice, as he was actually a soft and gentle man.
At
least twice, while praising the group’s staff for the role they had played in
the overall success of the company, he became so emotional that he was unable
to continue and his brother Ross took over.
Chris
was known for many things, among them his love of the outdoors, but his
notoriety as a local took an unprecedented leap when he became the driver of
the Big Blokes Lunch to support prostate cancer.
Chris’s
honesty while speaking at one of those events about his diagnosis and living
with the disease was so powerful and moving that many ranked his address as
among the best they had ever heard. Some people were reduced to tears.
Tragedy
in one’s life frequently evokes honesty and openness that defies publically
known and understood personal traits and that was the case when Chris talked
about his prostate cancer.
Yes,
Chris was a good bloke, he always stood with me through the ructions of running
a newspaper and it is with great pride I claim he was a friend, a local friend.