Getting it together or pulling it apart - both demand effort and intent

Pulling your life together, and keeping it that way, necessitates intent, planning and effort.

Oddly, pulling it apart, and sustaining that, requires equal intent, planning and effort.

Deciding on which side
of the line we stand.

Disequilibrium demands an exertion of certain mental or physical energy in order to achieve a purpose, just as does achieving its opposite, equilibrium.

Walking home recently as the temperature charged toward 40 degrees, three people walking the other way, with equal intent, shared the responsibility of carrying a slab a beer.

The nearest liquor outlet was nearly two kilometers away and so it was quite a journey to secure the 10kg package; a package that promised passing pleasure, but which would leave a permanent legacy of difficulties.

Those “lager luggers” obviously had a plan, had employed it with some intent and were demonstrably prepared to put in the effort to see their design through to fruition.

Any conversation questioning another’s conduct is fraught with danger as it is loaded with vagaries, opinion and seemingly insoluble differences about what is and isn’t right – maybe those struggling home with the slab of beer were doing the right thing and perhaps any judgment about their behaviour is what really warrants questioning.

Who is right and who is wrong about anything is a remarkably difficult delineation to make and probably the term “wrong” can only be applied to a few consensually agreed to and broadly understood evils.

Culture and tradition invades our lives circumscribing many things for whatever society in which we live decides for us what falls either side of the line that separates the good from bad.

Most alarming however, is the disengagement of many who appear to have abandoned the mutuality that is the energy of communities and rather than commit themselves to the greater good they appear to have capitalized the “I” in individual.

Such a development not only appeals to the corporate world, but is one that is actively encouraged for its bank balances are enhanced as people become more remote from, and less engaged with the with the forces that drive our world.

Existing processes have patently favoured an elite few, but it would be unfair not to attribute many societal advances to the present dynamic.

Rather than simply criticize and judge our fellows - that is far too simplistic and destructive - we need to engage with the vigor that shapes our communities, collaborating with those forces to guide them to an end that benefits people more so than profit.

That in itself is simplistic as any change so sweeping and intricate draws its reason from ideas as yet misunderstood by many and so to have people engage with their community they have to be able to see a benefit.

Education reveals that benefit.